Surprises can generate excitement. There is something about not knowing what the other person is planning that creates a sense of expectation. God tells us that His thoughts are not our thoughts and His ways are not our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). Just as we know we can trust our heavenly Father with His thoughts and ways because we know He is for us with only plans to prosper us, we should also be able to trust our spouse to make only good plans and have only good thoughts toward us. Only one of you pull out a date and don’t reveal it your spouse. The one that pulled out the date, will make all the plans, invite your spouse out for a surprise date and take your spouse out for the date that was selected from the jar.